I don’t know about you but Fall is absolutely my favorite time of year. It may get cooler but there is just something about the gorgeous way nature has to bring about a time of rest.
I have thought about moving, to get away from old memories so many times, but then Fall, or Autumn as some like to call it, arrives in all its splendor here in New England and for a short time I remember some of the reasons why I stay.
I do have many memories I would like to erase, bad decisions, bad days, weeks, years, but this time of year, for some reason, helps me to reflect on all the good and gives me a boost of hope that instead of running away from the bad memories, I can replace them with good times, good memories of new found friendships.
It is so hard to get out of our own way sometimes, to not be the harsh judge, jury and executioner of our lives. We definitely have a tendency to be our harshest critique.
That has been me the past couple of years. I took on the total blame, in my head only, of the breakup of my marriage. I do not claim to be free from blame, however, I was not the one that walked out on our family, I wanted to work things out until he walked out the door and then I no longer had any fight left in me to try. That I think is where my guilt really lies. Thinking I did not try hard enough.
Could I have tried harder?
Maybe, but I cannot go back and undo things and I have to remember I am only accountable for my actions as well as I can only control me, how I act and react.
I am choosing to let things go and move on.
I am allowing myself to see the beauty and wonder in the unknown, to explore new adventures and see where it may take me. It is time to really find out who I am and how much I can truly accomplish.
It is time to accept that is is ok to be me and …
I am enough!